The 3rd time, I was a crying mess, which he has never seen me do so he knew he had royally blown it. I bring him food I make sure he's happy. It time with him I value most. The Mormon church is certainly a time consuming church. Take the crazy and add a ton of even crazier shit on on top and Your girlfriend literally believes in a book of scripture that was produced from a rock in Josephs Hat. Do people that are that busy honestly not have time to even think about their SO. By that I mean that we ought to consider simply marrying within the faith and in the temple for all the reasons that people have given. We need to get over ourselves and start loving each other how the Lord intended. It works, though, because I know that his beliefs have great worth.
Jack is right about the demographics. Some Mormons believe the Telestial Kingdom will be littered with spouses who refused to get baptized. He then proceeded to beat the shit out of her for a decade. Honestly, the thing that makes me the craziest is the missionaries.
I've read some of the articles linked to by mormonessays. You should ask yourself if you want to pursue a future partner who was raised in an environment that causes drastic sexual suppression and you may never have a healthy sex life if she is your wife. A lot of people will tell you to run but if she is in her late 20s most Mormon guys her age are married. Am still very hopeful and in love. Not in endless discussions of temple marriage, not ever. The important thing is that you are getting to know one another, not that you are always doing fancy things. December 19, OK, you're off the hook, mine was in the 70's too, but I hadn't been to CA by then. Needless to say, his top choices were not near my family and friends. I understand that, and accept that. If you like your regular fix of alcohol or nicotine, then dating a Mormon probably isn't a good idea.
This does not mean that you cannot do those things, but remember that she will not be able to do them with you. He was patient and supportive, promising to continue acting like a TBM for as long as I wanted our baby is 4, so that likely would have been at least 14 years. To them, everyone is either TBM, hasn't learned the truth yet, or has some kind of personal failing laziness, desire to sin, allowed themself to be deceived by satan, etc. BUT it could easily have gone the other way. All I can do is Trust in God. My wife expects me to understand her situation but whiles I am willing to understand, I wish she would make some effort to etch out some quality time for us when she is not stressed out and grumpy and irritable. I'm firmly in the RUN camp. I am a very independent person socially so I often do not think to call people just because I am fine doing things myself. Is this a sign of my own weakness.